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Last dinner before I go to jail..
by /u/mschanandlerbong___ | 116 comments | 2026-06-12T19:19:03+00:00 Central
Post
My sweet boyfriend made some tie dye ravioli with
brie/ricotta and apple, and focaccia last night.
I'll be turning myself in at 4:30 to begin my ten
day sentence..
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| /u/eaternallyhungry Stay strong! Don't borrow anything, don't touch anyone's stuff, mind your own business, and you'll be out soon. |
| /u/asystole_unshockable And don't allow anyone to borrow anything either! |
| /u/asystole_unshockable Someone asked the risk with this - allowing people to borrow things has several risks, the most obvious being not getting it back or having it damaged, additionally lending items can be seen as a weakness, as in you're lending something out in return for protection or you're lending it because you're afraid to say "no", leading others to target you. I was the healthcare provider for a state prison and saw this regularly. However with OP having a 10 day sentence in what is likely a county setting, it's likely not going to be anything like that for her. OP you got this girl, we are all rooting for you! Show us your first dinner on the outs ♥️! |
| /u/drunkeymunkey My mom was an RN that left rehab/long term care facilities after not being able to 'rebound' from a favorite client passing. She thought it would be easier working in a prison setting because she wouldn't feel pity for the population, but she was wrong. She would come home and cry about things she saw in the infirmary. |
| /u/Young_Former Your poor mom. I hope she got into a better job for her mental health after that. |
| /u/onlymemes-plz I'm so curious about what that job would be like! |
| /u/Far-Delay7690 Probably depressing mostly? |
| /u/Interesting-Cap8792 Having done the same it's not super depressing (yeah, there are depressing cases, like any of healthcare), but it's an interesting place that's high pace and low resource with a lot of ER overlap. You get a lot of the same patients the ER sees. Honestly, there are some more funny and fun stories aside from sad ones that I didn't expect. |
| /u/asystole_unshockable Some of it, yes. But not all of it. |
| /u/asystole_unshockable It was interesting, to say the least! I particularly enjoyed my D rosters, which would be inmates with a (or multiple) psychiatric diagnosis. But like I said above, OP isn't going to a state facility for 10 days (at least not in my state, that would be pretty unusual) and while it's not going to be the best experience of her life, it's not going to be nearly as bad as a longer stay or a stay in a prison environment as it relates to a county setting. |
| /u/mschanandlerbong___ Honestly I'm very friendly, and very generous. So this is actually something I'm slightly worried about getting messed up with.. |
| /u/writeleahwrite A friend of mine did a couple of weeks so I sent her some books (it was allowed as long as they shipped directly from the retailer to the jail) and one of them was a fancy book with astrological charts based on your specific birthday (not my interest but she's into it). She said it made her super popular because everyone wanted her to look their birthday up for them. It's my favorite tip for anyone going to a women's jail. |
| /u/AirlineObjective921 When I went to jail a girl got a pack of Tarot cards sent to her. She was super popular after that. Everyone wanted a reading, didn't matter if you were into that sort of thing or not, it was something fun to pass the time. |
| /u/thisissodamnhard123 omg this is so cute, I love women |
| /u/throwawaygrosso I worked with male inmates for a long time and they are also really into this. Probably even more so than the women. I was surprised. |
| /u/UniversityAny755 My bestie's BF had to go to county jail for some weekends due to being super stupid. He said the worst part is the boredom. The jail library was 99% bibles and 1% Stephen King. The guy who controlled the deck of cards was top dog and everyone wanted to play a hand. It's the only thing available to make the time go by and be bearable. The food he said was utterly disgusting, like rotten baloney sandwiches. You could opt for the vegetarian diet which was peanut butter sandwiches. He said the side benefit to the PB sandwich was the constipation because...I'm sure we can all figure that out. |
| /u/Altruistic-Target-67 This is great advice, I love it. I bet a book of dream interpretations would be good too. |
| /u/Izzysmiles2114 Omg that is an amazingly thoughtful gift. I am seriously impressed and I will save this tip. You're going to be just fine girl, keep your chin up, shoulders back, and your eyes forward. Ten days will be over in a flash. Women tend to look out for each other in jail and you'll be okay 💙 |
| /u/asystole_unshockable In county for ten days girl, I wouldn't make this your main concern. I still wouldn't loan anything out, but county is NOT, I repeat NOT, the state pen. You're going to be fine! Like the other people have said, just mind your business and stay out of drama situations. It's ok to be friendly! The people in there are people too, you're not walking in to a facility full of people that want to hurt you, remember that! Those ladies just want to do their time and go home, just like you. |
| /u/mschanandlerbong___ You're absolutely right. Heard! 🫡 |
| /u/WoodsandWool I'm really torn about this because it does depend a lot on the specific county. Generally, county isn't too bad and you'll likely be fine OP, but some counties jail is actually way worse than prison. Not local holding jails, but actual county jail for longer non-prison sentences can be much much worse than federal prisons due to a number of factors like lower budgets, overpopulation, etc. Fed prisons are actually usually pretty decent, state prisons are typically rougher. OP keep your wits about you, don't share anything, be polite but don't be overly nice or people pleasing. Set your jaw and have some sharp edges until you know what kind of crowd you're in. 10 days is very short and I'm sure you'll be just fine, just keep your head on a swivel and assume everyone wants something from you. Source: been to both city holding jails & county myself, and have unfortunately had a lot of loved ones serve longer county sentences and federal prison sentences. |
| /u/AirlineObjective921 She knows how long she's in for and has a boyfriend who made her a going away meal; she'll be fine. I was in County for 3 months and most of the stress was not knowing when the heck I was gonna be let out and having no one to call outside. One of the other ladies had a pen pal from the guys side of jail who made a joke about female jail being just a bunch of girls braiding each others hair and he was surprisingly accurate. |
| /u/panicnarwhal you can do 10 days in county no problem - promise! i've been in county jail a few times, and your biggest problem is usually gonna be the boredom and the drama (because of the boredom lol) with a 10 day sentence also, with a sentence that short, commissary might be an issue. there's a chance you won't get it until right before you're released, which sucks take advantage of tablets and video calls - they're expensive after awhile, but worth it. 3 years ago my husband was in county for a month (yes i know, we're ridiculous lol) and i scheduled video visits for us twice a day. he said it kept him sane and gave him something to look forward to. so take advantage of that! read books, watch crappy tv, and find a nice girl or 2 to bullshit with. you'll do great 💕 |
| /u/mschanandlerbong___ One of my old friends had to do the same sentence, so that was helpful for some insight. I also have an ex that spent several months in jail as well(yes, I have always been an idiot 😂), so I've been on the other side. My main concern was being able to have my antidepressants/anti anxiety meds (non narcotic), but it seems like that won't be an issue. Thank you for the kind words and insight, I've honestly been so anxious all day and can't even eat which is super frustrating. I probably won't respond to any more comments because it's a little overwhelming. I didn't expect so many responses at all, but I sure do appreciate the kindness. 💓 |
| /u/panicnarwhal just think of it as an experience - like a shitty vacation lol. i'll be thinking about you this week! if you think of it, pop back in or dm me when you get out and let me know how you did. i bet you'll do great, you'll make at least a friend or 2, and you'll come out with some interesting stories 💕 |
| /u/nah2daysun Because they'd keep it or why |
| /u/peyotekoyote Probably or they will consider you a softie for loaning things out and jump you for more of your things. |
| /u/MelodiousMelly Maaaaybe, but jail is different than prison. Lots of people trying to just do their short time and move on ASAP. Majority will be for stuff like DUI or child support payments, not hard crimes. Probably some people will even be on work release and only sleeping there during the week. Not saying it's smart to loan things out if you ever want to see them again, but it probably won't be as rough as all that. |
| /u/noob1588 You guys are so cute 😭😭😭 it's only ten days she'll be fine. Now being in jail for months is when problems may occur Ime nobody really tries to mess with anybody in there for extremely short stints. She'll be in and out |
| /u/Passiveresistance Loool I was thinking exactly that while reading these comments. |
| /u/Content-Honeydew9340 I had to go back and reread because I thought she said 10 days in like a county jail not 10 years in a state prison 😭 my husband did a little 6 months once MANY MANY MANY YEARS AGO because he saw a guy assaulted a girl and he didn't like that and reacted without thinking. He said there was a couple weirdos in there but it was overall no big deal. I have only stayed the night a couple times for unpaid fines when I was much younger 😂 and it's nothing like going to a prison. I grew up around addicts that definitely would have giggled at doing a couple weeks in county. I mean, yeah I would rather be at home in my own bed minding my own business and eating whatever I want but I'm sure op will be safe |
| /u/noob1588 Yes. Ime 95% of the ladies in there are chill, regular people just down on their luck like OP. At worst OP is going to make a little friend to talk to everyday but that's about it. But yea for the most part OP does not have to worry about seasoned criminals messing with her 24/7 🤣🤣🤣 |
| /u/drunkeymunkey No husband, no kids, & someone else does the cooking? Sign me up! OP good luck toots, you got this! Come back with an update! |
| /u/OkOutlandishness1363 90% of these comments are posted by people who haven't ever been to jail lol. Most Americans use the terms "jail" and "prison" interchangeably. |
| /u/Rose1982 I've never been to jail/prison/detention centers etc. and I don't know anyone who has either. The thought of 10 days in any of those places terrifies me. |
| /u/noob1588 Yes I was terrified too but it's not as bad as you think (not to say anybody should be ok with going to jail !!) |
| /u/literally_lemons Even 10 days come on easy to say |
| /u/Holiday_Number_3234 Yeah, people are kind of responding like this is a man going to a hard-core prison. OP, you'll be fine. There is drama, but typically not any danger. Honestly, pissing of those is charge is usually more of a concern than angering other inmates. You'll be fine!! |
| /u/mschanandlerbong___ Thank you for the advice! |
| /u/U_PassButter You'll be okay. There will be hard moments. But you can do 10 days. It's not going to become your lifestyle. Don't let anyone take you out of your element or put you in a position to get in any trouble. You'll be just fine. |
| /u/PsyOpBunnyHop Don't take anything that you don't absolutely need and don't mind possibly losing forever. |
| /u/DirectEssay2264 Agreed. The hardest part is probably going to be the anticipation. Once OP gets in there and settles into the routine, those 10 days will hopefully go by quicker than they expect. |
| /u/No_Donkey9914 This is the best advice. |
| /u/DonaCheli Come back and tell us how it went, please...if you wanna. |
| /u/Complete-Gur7023 I would like to know as well!!! |
| /u/Formal-Proposal7850 I know you can't take pictures of the food in there but maybe you can come back and give us some impressionistic scribbles? |
| /u/TokenWeirdo13 I've unfortunately been to jail and prison and the food is... not good. Slightly better upstate (prison). |
| /u/Darth-Skvader I'm curious to know how it compares to the public school cafeteria food in my state. Both designed to feed a huge amount of people every day on a budget of $3 and a prayer, I've heard people compare the quality but I wonder how true that actually is. |
| /u/TokenWeirdo13 I mean, im old so i havent been in public school since the 90s, but county jail food wasnt even close to what we would get in the cafeteria in school. It was gross. We had something we would call schmeat, like a patty of "something" meat-like but just tasted... off. Maybe it was mixed with soy or something? I dont know for sure. I can say it was way worse than school food, at least in my area. |
| /u/ToiIetGhost School > psych ward > jail I've had a colourful life 😭 |
| /u/AspieAsshole I went to a psych ward that had bizarrely fantastic food, I ate so much while I was there. There was only one meal out of the 7 days I was there that wasn't just weirdly delicious. |
| /u/doritobimbo Same! I was actually kinda jealous my first stint because the folks there for restrictive eating disorders got *reeeealllyyyy* good food like Salmon and roasted broccoli. |
| /u/Content-Honeydew9340 My mom went to a federal prison (min security) and we were putting money on her books and this heifer was sitting around crocheting hats and eating name brand ice cream 🤣 I can't even afford name brand out here in the wild 😭 she said it was like sleep away camp but she was ready to come home from vacation and act right 🤭 and so far she pretty much has acted right. She went for a year and been out for 5 she said if you walk in and act like you got a little bit of walking around sense then you are usually fine |
| /u/Purp_Rox I'm not being funny when I say phones are snuck in regularly into jails/prisons. There's whole subreddits of people posting from inside. On the struggle food sub, there's a dude who posts his plate literally every day lol |
| /u/MariettaDaws That's wild, I'll have to check that out because I'm curious But I hope someone doing 10 days has more sense than that |
| /u/agarrabrant As someone who did over a year in Maricopa county, AZ, both under Arpaio and Lamb, it sucks lol I saw a woman dive over a bunk bed to fight a woman for a cupcake. Our whole pod got maced when 2 women were fighting and it started to involve a DO. They maced the 2 women to get them to stop fighting and it spread of course in the tightly contained area. I got some beautiful forearm tattoos for essentially $8 Lesbian sex on the bunk right next to my head |
| /u/DonaCheli That sounds insane! Thanks for sharing though. |
| /u/DoveHopeDownwrdSlope RemindMe! 11 days <3 be brave girl, you've got this |
| /u/Key-Cook9448 Girl the hell did you do 😭 |
| /u/mschanandlerbong___ Second dui, so honestly I deserve it. I have been through treatment, two months of php and iop(intensive therapy programs), and work really hard every day to maintain my sobriety. ETA for the record I wasn't drunk, nor was I driving at the time (doesn't matter), I was high passed out in my car. |
| /u/Striking-Ad-8690 My dad had to spend a Thanksgiving in jail for a DUI. He's almost 30 years sober now. You can do it, don't give up! |
| /u/dazzleunexpired What a weird cannon event we share My dad got attested in Nebraska. What about yours? 😂 My younger sister had to post bail 😂 Eta: wait. I think you guys misunderstood 😂 I'm saying it's weird that this person dad and my dad both were arrested on Thanksgiving 😂 I'm sorry I don't mean it's weird to share this hahaha forgive me |
| /u/ourpodcastisbest Keep working. My mom died because of a driver that was under the influence. That's a much longer prison sentence. |
| /u/mschanandlerbong___ Im so so sorry, I thank god all the time I didn't hurt anyone. I it very seriously. My mother actually died in a single car drunk driving accident 😕 I've had terrible trouble with addiction honestly, but like I said in another comment, I do a lot of things to maintain my sobriety. That's all I can do.. |
| /u/commander_kawaii If you have a family history of addiction, it's possible there is a genetic predisposition involved in your struggle. You might need help from a physician who treats addiction rather than therapy alone. Some people need pharmaceutical help to stay clean. Use every tool at your disposal to beat this, because you deserve a better life and the risk of harming others when you lose control is not worth the temporary numbing of your pain. Talk to doctors, social workers, addiction specialists, therapists, whoever you need to talk to in order to figure this out. It is pretty much impossible to beat it on your own, so you have to find the help that works best for you as an individual. |
| /u/mschanandlerbong___ My brother also died from alcoholism 4 years ago too.. in the past year I've done 3 months of intensive therapy programs including 30 days in patient. Relapsed. Moved into a sober living house with some awesome women for several months.. I maintain personal therapy weekly, and still go to meetings once in a while. I'm really trying man. It sucks having to be someone that has to work so hard for it. Took a long time to admit I'll have to do this forever, but that's just the way it is I reckon. Thank you though for the advice regardless. |
| /u/Radioactive_Kitten Yes! Naltrexone and Wellbutrin are shown to be helpful pharmaceutical therapy for sobriety when used in conjunction with other therapies (like talk therapy). You got this one day at a time OP 🫶 ETA: the person below reminded me that GLP-1s are being talked about/researched/used off label for addiction too. We have much better pharmaceutical options now, and ones that don't replace addiction with a less harmful addiction. Worth exploring for anyone in recovery - they might not be appropriate, but worth having a conversation with a healthcare provider (assuming one has access to healthcare). |
| /u/mschanandlerbong___ I actually take both of those! Getting the right diagnosis and right medications has helped me tremendouslyz |
| /u/Radioactive_Kitten I'm so glad they've been helpful for you! Wishing you all the best in your recovery |
| /u/thecatstartedit Im proud of you, you are taking your meds, you've been in treatment in multiple ways, you did sober living. From someone with 23 years - I'm proud of you big big. These steps all matter. There is no magic bullet but you and your hard work. |
| /u/Purp_Rox I second the Wellbutrin. Never felt as good in life, never was more happy than when I was taking it. I also have adhd and bipolar disorder, so caveat there, but it def worked for me. |
| /u/NoFundieBusiness As someone who's been clean almost 5 years now, I promise it does get easier as time goes on. It becomes the norm the way using was the norm before after some years. I wish you the best of luck in your sobriety 🫶🏻💕 |
| /u/TeamLaurent we see you trying and https://giphy.com/gifs/82IKB3BDY6PJ7o25b0 |
| /u/mooseintheleaves Hey, I am proud of you for all of your effort and persistence. Truly. ❤️ I fight with a different addiction and have predisposition from addition and depression in family. It's a day to day choice and it can be hard some days but it's worth it to do the best we can. |
| /u/sorryaboutthatbro Seconding naltrexone and Wellbutrin. Incredibly helpful for me and many others. |
| /u/katleessi Wishing you the best on your 10 days! I lost my best friend to alcoholism 4 months ago. Her mom had passed away 3 years prior and she really struggled those few years. By the time she was admitting it, it was too late. She was in the ICU and then left and checked into rehab, we were all so fucking proud, and then she caught an infection and couldn't overcome the damage that was already done to her little body. I miss her every single day. We spoke on the phone literally daily. I've felt so lost without her. I was closer to her than my sister or my family tbh. I know I'm just a stranger but if you can't do it for yourself (which sounds like you're really trying), do it for your brother and all your loved ones. We are all just getting by without her. Be strong!!!!!!! And good luck! We are all rooting for you ✨✨✨ |
| /u/retrozebra Seconding or third or whatever for naltrexone. I take it for other things but it does wonders for addiction and maintaining sobriety I hear. |
| /u/Unlikely_Crescent Hey fellow hazy grazer 💖 I've got a different disorder that I know requires working at "staying healthy" for the rest of my life, and I gotta say that I admire your attitude. It is hard, and it does suck REALLY bad. And at the same time, it's worthwhile and you are REALLY capable. I'm cheering for you from the west coast, and I can't wait for you to check in with us in a week and a half. |
| /u/Traditional-Yak8886 naltrexone works great if you're dealing with alcohol stuff OP! |
| /u/ourpodcastisbest I'm sorry for your loss. Good luck with your sobriety. |
| /u/UnicornUke Look into Naltrexone. It saved my early sobriety. r/stopdrinking would love to welcome you. |
| /u/silvermoka Take it one day at a time and use all the tools at your disposal! And if worse comes to worst and you slip up,, stay out of them cars unless you're a passenger of course |
| /u/kmbright I'm sorry for your loss, and wish you the best with maintaining your sobriety. I litigate drunk driving cases and it's always horrifying to me how quickly the choice to drive drunk can ruin someone's life, whether that's the driver's or innocent folks on the road with them (or often both). For what it's worth, this internet stranger is really proud of you for taking the necessary steps to keep yourself and others safe. |
| /u/Natural_Bill_6084 Feel free to message if you want support. 17 years sober on the 20th of this month :) |
| /u/mermaid-babe I'm a child of alcoholics and I struggle too. One thing I've learned that of if I say ok to one I cannot drive home. Because for me, it's never just one drink |
| /u/Virtual-Strength-950 I'm so sorry for your loss. It's scary on the roads especially when other people are intentionally putting OTHER people's lives at risk. It is never worth it to drive under the influence, ever! |
| /u/bulbasauuuur My great grandfather was killed by a drunk driver when he was 95. I was just a newborn so I don't remember him, but I always thought that was tragic. He lived so long and someone else's bad, selfish decision ended his life. |
| /u/ourpodcastisbest Driving has become so difficult. People are so reckless with their own lives and the lives of others. |
| /u/N3rdyAvocad0 You got this! Come join a SMART Recovery meeting sometime once you're out. I know a lot of folks don't like AA, but I find SMART to be much better. |
| /u/asystole_unshockable I LOVE SMART recovery! |
| /u/unexpected_blonde I haven't heard of SMART recovery before, but wow, I really appreciate that they're an option! Like you said, many people are not fans of AA for a variety of reasons. So this is a great option to know! |
| /u/FriendToPredators You can do this. Remember what's more important and hold to that. |
| /u/pineconeminecone Keep on it. A young woman in my hometown died when she was hit by a drunk driver while waiting to turn into her driveway. Her family heard the accident from inside the house and ran outside to see their daughter burning to death inside her car. They screamed in the street how much they loved her as her body disappeared from view when the inferno got bigger. You've probably heard a million of these stories, and I imagine you don't want it to be yours. Maybe more importantly, you don't want it to be someone else's story because of you. Keep fighting the good fight, this is so much bigger than you. |
| /u/morbidmoon2 My Aunt was killed by a drunk driver. The family never gets over it. Addiction is hell, and I really hope OP can recover |
| /u/ameliabedelia_ Girl, every time I see a comment from you outside of the Feb 2025 bumpers group it's like a celebrity sighting for me haha. Also, good luck with your sobriety OP! I am rooting for you. |
| /u/pineconeminecone I'd like to think I'm memorable! Hi! |
| /u/Swiftlocalvandal I will not lie, I agree with you that you deserve jail time. I also have a ton of respect for you because you're not making excuses and you're facing the consequences like a grown woman. You seem to be in a good place and I wish you lots of success going forward. |
| /u/ArtismFag Keep working at it girl, you can climb out of this. You are not alone in it.🩷🩷🩷 |
| /u/Rattiepalooza Hey OP -- I am 10 years in recovery. If you need to talk when you get out, please message me. I am always here for those of us who have to fight the bottle. It's not easy. I remember what it was like trying to quit drinking, and I am here to support you if needed! Therapy is amazing, and it will do so so so so so so much for you because you're doing the work!!! I remember my IOP classes, and they saved my fucking life. Every second is a victory. Every minute is an achievement. Every hour is a gain. Every day is a triumph. I am so proud of you. Good job taking accountability! This is absolutely a major step. ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ |
| /u/horriddaydream You're already holding yourself accountable! You'll be ok🩷 |
| /u/FormerLifeFreak I've never gotten a DUI, but I understand the addiction to alcohol very, very well. It's a struggle that is very hard to come out of, but it can be done. Pay your dues, and I genuinely wish you the best of luck both during your sentence and journey to sobriety after. |
| /u/Praise-Bingus 10 days will fly by. The important thing is no one was hurt while you were drinking and there is still time rebuild yourself stronger than before. You got this |
| /u/this-just-sucks I support you in getting better! You can do it, OP. 10 days of jail sucks hard, but it's way better than being involved in an accident that can permanently alter the course of your life (and someone else's). Misfortune that comes from situations like that hypothetical spreads like falling domino blocks. I'm happy you're ok and I hope that the bummer of this predicament can help you keep your sight on the goal. Getting over an addiction is incredibly hard (I've been there), but it's possible and I believe in you. |
| /u/undercover_sun I respect your admission and I empathize with your struggle to maintain sobriety. Many years ago, my sister and brother decided to go on a drunk driving joy ride. He didn't survive and she was left to face vehicular manslaughter charges afterwards. She was never able to get sober and we no longer have a relationship. It feels like they both died that day. I hope your story is different. I hope you use those 10 days to think about the kind of life you want for yourself and the relationships you want to have with other people and yourself. Of course you could hurt a stranger, but you might also hurt someone you love or yourself. Don't count yourself out, either. Your loss would hurt everyone who loves you for the rest of their lives. Good luck in there OP. |
| /u/discocherrysuede In my state jail time for a 2nd DUI is 4 months and have to get a breathalyzer in your car for a year. I'd say 10 days is getting off lucky. |
| /u/PNWKnitNerd I will not drink with you today! |
| /u/sofbunny You can do it!! Sobriety is something to be proud of!!! I'm a bartender and I love to support people who request non alcoholic drinks, cuz our culture is way too obsessed with alcohol. We're rooting for you!! |
| /u/Brain-cold I got a second DUI and went to jail for 10 days too. My last meal before going in was Penne Alfredo with zucchini and tomatoes. If you need advice or a shoulder to lean on, my DMs are open :) |
| /u/therealNerdMuffin I'm glad to hear you're working on it but 10 days seems kinda light for a second DUI tbh |
| /u/thigh_high_levii Keep working hard. I've been clean for ~7 years and spent more than my fair share of time in jail. I work in mental health and addiction treatment these days. You can fucking do it. Be safe, keep your head down, and come out of this with fire in your heart. Well all be rooting for you. |
| /u/chicky_nuggy_7 How does one tie dye ravioli? |
| /u/ninotchka97 you use different colored pastas rolled to together with a rolling pin. they are dyed with different things |
| /u/chicky_nuggy_7 HA! Here I was thinking OP's boyfriend was in the kitchen wrist flickin like Picasso on those raviolis |
| /u/SadAndConfused11 Ngl exactly how I thought this went 😂 |
| /u/mschanandlerbong___ Sorry guys! I think he used beet root and squid ink, and probably something else, honestly unsure. So mixing them together you get the different colors throughout. He's a chef so he made it in a an actual kitchen. |